Hi everyone, this is my first post of the year after my blog was hacked.

I was having tea with my customer who can to me to exchange a faulty equipment when I noticed she looked strange. So I asked if everything was fine.

“Didn’t you read the papers? The employer who abused her maid by scalding her with hot water, slashing with sharp object, hitting her head with frying pan, and kicking her legs and body? That was me.” she said calmly, with no expression.

I was taken aback…. “What exactly happened?” I probed.

“Well, you know my dad is in a vegetative state and requires proper care, this maid destroyed  all the medical equipment sustaining his life, I went mad and attacked her, if I had a knife in hand, I would have stabbed her instantly. Neighbors called the police and I was taken to the police station, but not before I fixed up all the mess she created.”  she replied coldly.

“The news paper only reported her injuries, but nothing about how she tried to murder my dad. I’ll be charged in court for grevious hurt of course,maybe sent to jail for all I care, but I m more worried for my dad. It was also found that the maid was only 16 years old but her papers showed 25. I treated her like my little sister and doted on her, I don’t understand why she destroyed all the medical equipment. Anyway, it’s over now, I just live day to day doing the best I can for my dad until I m arrested officially.”

I have known this lady for the past 2 years, supplying her with free colloidal silver to help her dad with his infections, I understood the stress with taking care of a vegetative patient in coma. But this news was very sad as I know this lady to be a very caring daughter.

We saw anger in action, caused by blind rage which could potentially kill another. We knew it was caused by a provocative action or actions which resulted in explosive retaliation. What we don’t see is why did it all happen and what was the original source of the problems!

Normal people would have simply made the judgement that she is a monster to inflict such injuries on a “helpless” teenager, as reported by the press. No one knew the maid also tried to murder her employer’s dad!

The real issue is why did this lady choose this maid, and why did the maid destroy all the life sustaining equipment? There are too many questions that have no immediate answers. Of course there are reports of maids killing  babies, old folks in their care because of the “stress”.

Well, things don’t happen for no reason. For every bad situation there is a good intention. Please observe yourself before you get angry and try to analyse the process of anger, it could save you from jail one day!

Dear readers,

My blog has been hacked twice and I hope it will not happen anymore. ICE BLUE.

I had been resting for many months and have acquired some new experiences which I will be sharing.

Love you all.

PEACE OF I

Eddie

Every year Father Cornillo opened the vestry of his little country church and received visits from the young people of neighbouring villages.

They came from far to receive advice and to learn about what to meditate on.

One day, a young girl from a good family knelt at the feet of the priest.

“Father,” she said, “I want to become a saint. What should I do?”

“Follow your heart, and never deviate from what it tells you,” Father   Cornillo replied.

The girl was pleased with the advice.

‘How easy it is to become a saint,’ she thought. ‘All I have to do is listen to what my heart says.’

But before she could get up and leave the church, the priest added,  “To   follow you heart you will have to be very strong, and your life will be full of sacrifices.”

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Father Cornillo was perfectly right:

Listening to your heart requires tremendous willpower.

It is not a question of living according to what you feel like doing day by day. On the contrary, you have to seek out the wisdom of your heart, and never give up. You cannot be satisfied with little victories, and you must not fall prey to self-satisfaction.

Listening to your heart means being hard on yourself, and never trying to   circumvent its moral requirements.

Short Story From The Positive Club

I have often advocated the truth about physical dis-eases, that they are always caused by the mind. In my private practice, patients are able to use their mind power to heal bones and change their entire mindsets about their lives. However, there are always the skeptics. Well, if you believe, you harness the power of your faith, and that is very very powerful. I do not heal, I have no super natural powers. The patients heal themselves through my role as a coach.

Alzheimer’s & Parkinson’s Disease are neuro diseases. Based on our statistics in our regression therapies, people with these problems are seriously lacking in care and concern from their immediate families, or rather, what they perceive to be lacking.

In another perspective, it is also a lesson for the family to practice love and tolerance. Our parents or elders took care of us when we were young, with their hearts. When we get older we seem to forget the love they gave us and complain (in various degree) why we need to take care of them or why do we need to handle such problems. It all boils down t o education and upbringing. Nobody is at fault.  Isn’t it true that we learn when there is a problem? We do learn from mistakes.

Our elders portray a symptom of sickness to tell us something, just like a young child falls sick to seek the attention of his parents or to protest against some indignation. What should we do?

Love and patience, care and concern. The world will be a better place if more love is available.

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As a counselor, I often hear parents complaining about how disobedient their children were. They always forget that they are the first teachers in their children’s lives. Can a child speak or walk or do anything without the teachings received? Fix the child, he or she is the problem…that’s what almost all parents would say. Children learn by observing and listening, at what their parents do and say. So, parents, please love your child by doing the right things. Children imitate very fast and they take parents as a standard for their lives ahead. When you feel your child has a problem, the problem lies with YOU!

Some interesting pictures below, courtesy of stomp.com.sg

Your child will probably grow up with a phobia of barbeques and fire or grills and metal bars.

Your child will grow to love smoking and booze.

A phobia of cats? This is a nightmare for kids!

Reminded me of a famous pop star dangling his kid out of the window. This child could develop phobia of water and heights.

Destroying your child’s self esteem…..she will be a failure in her whole life.

A friend of mine was actually hung on a tree when she was young, took a lot of therapy sessions to clear her hurt feelings.

People do crazy things….to their child, treating them like bags or pets.

In short, whatever we do to our children will have an impact on their lives, negative or positive. Its our choice. So, please don’t blame our kids for ANYTHING!

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PEACE OF I

Eddie Lim

Hillary and Tenzing are famous around the world for being the first people to climb Mount Everest in 1953. But few people have heard about the discussion they had half way up the mountain.

“You see Tenzing, we are going to tame the dragon of Everest. We have   been climbing its back, and soon we will be higher than its head.”

“Yes, I see Hillary, but I am not as enthusiastic as you are.”

“But look at the fantastic view. We are at a crossroads: down there is the   valley, our resting place, the ultimate depression. And up there is the roof of the world, the highest point on earth, with its eternal snow. What more could you want?”

“I don’t want anything. I know people who have been depressed, and who have   sworn to me that they reached the very bottom of their being. And that is not a good place to be, believe me. I have also spoken to people who reached the summit of their existence, and who sacrificed everything to get there. They did not seem happier. When you are at the top, you are alone, it’s cold, and nothing grows there.

“Personally, I prefer staying with my friends and family, at a level where I am comfortable. You are not at peace, Hillary, because you look up or down too much. You don’t know how to stay still.”
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Is it good to seek peace of mind in extremes? This little conversation seems to say that it is not.

True, everyone admires the prowess of Hillary and Tenzing, but that has   nothing to do with the serenity we seek in life. People perform exploits for other reasons than finding happiness. It is not good to live in extremes.  Source : www.positive-club.com

PEACE OF I

Eddie Lim

A strange incident happened today at the bus station. I was talking to a customer, standing about 1 meter away from a convenience stall at its side, when I noticed the owner calling us. He was telling us to move away from his stall and not to block his customers.

The funny thing was that we were not standing in-front of the stall, we were at the side, which did not display any of his stuff! Were we blocking his stall? I definitely didn’t think so. Hence I was wondering what was going through the owner’s mind. I simply ignored his words and continued with my conversation as there were also people walking and standing everywhere.

The owner of the stall probably had a bad day. Yet, does he have the right to “shoo” people away? How would a normal person react? A short argument would probably start and it could turn out nasty.

Just as it is easier to blame others for our unhappiness, the receiver also has the right not to accept the nonsense. When a person is bent on protecting his views no matter how wrong he is, regardless of the reality of the truth, he will believe in the truth that he wants to believe.

In such circumstances, it is advisable to just respect his views and actions and move on without arguments, because you will never win. He has his views, and so do we. Live and let live. There are no benefits if we insist on our rights and also no nasty consequences if we are wrong.

Respecting and accepting others and their attitudes as what they are, is easy. Its just a thought. We get annoyed because we see our own problematic attitudes in the person that we “felt” was annoying us.

PEACE OF I

Eddie

Finally, after a long absence…. Life is unpredictable and time is unfathomable.  At every stage of a person’s life, different things will happen, and for me, I learned that life is about self-inquiry.

What is self-inquiry? Basically, we all have thoughts about everything and we have our points of views. We don’t like someone, or something wasn’t supposed to happen, or we get upset at certain situations. The fundamental question we should ask ourselves is : Is that true? Is that absolutely true?

I used to have some prejudice towards a certain type of people, and I simply refuse to get close to them, even in business. (Meaning, even if there is money to be made, I would rather walk away) As I did my self-inquiry, I realized that my bad experience stemmed from a nasty experience during my army days as a young man.  Because of one nasty incident done by one person, I made up a story that all people like that person were bad.

That person only hurt me only once, but throughout the years, I had kept remembering that incident and replayed it in my mind over and over again. In reality, I had been hurting myself many times, more than what that person did. So, the reality is that I had been unkind to myself, not that person.

People shouldn’t betray others, is that true? The reality is opposite. The truth is that people do betray one another due to various reasons. When we live with that thought that people shouldn’t betray another, we feel hurt. If we drop that idea or thought that people shouldn’t betray each another, how do we feel? Good, happy etc..

Accepting reality isn’t that hard, be it good or bad. Because reality doesn’t have good or bad, it is what it is, reality.

A lady sought my help; she couldn’t forgive her father for being nasty to her dying mother. As a result, she remained single. She tried to evade my question when I asked if it was true that her dad had been nasty to her mom, and had never been nice before. Finally, she denied, the reality was, her dad had been responsible and loving to her mother. She couldn’t understand the way he expressed his feelings for his dying wife. Hence she developed her own views about how nasty her dad was, which is false. She had wanted to believe the reality that she had conceived, and not the true reality. So, she suffered, alone.  Finally, her liberation came when she realized that it had been her thoughts that were making her miserable, and changing those thoughts simply released her pain. It was simple reality.

So, before we start having any preconceived ideas about anything, let’s ask ourselves, that is the reality of things? Loving…what is.

|Do you think this waterfall is real?|

PEACE OF I

Eddie Lim

With 2 casinos operating in Singapore for coming to a year, it has definitely helped the economy. Tourism increased, job opportunities aplenty, so it must have been a good choice and it will be no surprise to have 2 more casinos after the general elections.

Many wealthy tourists and locals have played in our local Casinos, and from the earnings of the Casinos, we can guess how much money people have lost. Losing money is a small matter, losing families and sanity is a huge problem.

Why do people gamble in the first place? Why visit casinos in the first place?

Many reasons; Curiosity, thrill, and most importantly, MONEY!

Many people think it is easy to win in a casino, forgetting why a casino is operating in the first place. If it is a matter of chance, it would be a 50/50 chance between the banker and the player, isn’t it so? So, why do we have more losers than winners?

People lose to Probability Calculation, Greed and a revengeful mind.

When a person gambles, he will win, initially and once the thrill of winning sets in, he will not be able to stop the enchanting spells of greed and excitement. It is so exciting that it super cedes the effects of heroine.  When money is so easily won, that person will not be able to think of work and the greedy exciting thought of easy money will lure him back to the casinos.

The strange fact is that a person will remember the winnings and forget the losses. Over time, he will be heavy debts and taking loans from friends, relatives, banks and illegal money lenders.

The addiction has kicked in and soon, tragic tales will emerge from the newspapers. A single gambler in debts will cause misery for everyone, the most immediate being his own family.

Even if the gambler stops gambling (with the aid of gambling counseling from Charities), he still faces the mammoth task of repaying the debts, with is THE REASON why he gambles continuously. Money, or the lack of money, has become the addiction to gambling, due to the lure of easy and fast money. He can declare bankrupt to ease the payment of legal loans, but what about the illegal money lenders?

How shall he repay the debts then? Its simple; Earn the money back from where he had lost it.

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Thank You, I Love You.

Eddie Lim

Embarking on a lucrative project is never easy. Obstacles will arise when you least expected and suddenly we have a sticky situation. Oh, why can’t life be easy and smooth with no troubles to disturb us?

Sailing in the ocean is what our lives are all about. Sometimes the weather is just beautiful and sometimes a storm will threaten our very lives.

I was recently threatened by a competitor in a project which enlightened me, and I’d like to share with everyone.

In his letter, he accused my trainer and me as scammers and threatened to report us to the Singapore Police for cheating. As I had some knowledge of his earlier situations, I began to watch my own emotions and mind as I read and analysed his words.

Am I or my trainer really scammers out to cheat others? Is it absolutely true that we are conmen? Have I broken the law? Based on our happy clients , as well as my personal experiences, I knew what we taught was indeed true and useful, and nobody had challenged our 100% money back guarantee claim. There is nothing to indicate that we have done anything against our conscience, or against the law.

The funny part was that there were happy pictures of him and his group proving that our trainer’s program was indeed effective and true. They also did not complain nor asked for the 100% money back guarantee then. Almost a year later, they start to make complaints and accusations

Why did I attract such a nasty letter? In reality, whatever nonsense that person said had nothing to do with me. What really happen within me to attract that situation in that person? Was it my fear? Perhaps. Fear of what? I just have to meditate and investigate.

However, on the flip side, I noticed that the person, who threatened me, too had fear himself. He had lost the trust with my trainer and was unable to commit to his clients since his contract was terminated.

Just as a person who has committed wrong doings, the first reaction would be to deny any wrong and attack everyone else. This is a natural defence, a method to deflect his problem and push the blame away so that no-one else will accuse or suspect him.

In relationships, when a spouse did something wrong or has betrayed the other, his/her first reaction would be the same, to attack first by blaming the other, or creating a ruckus. A child who has done wrong will try to blame others first and deny all responsibility. Hardly will any child admit their faults readily.

If I had blown my top each time something bad happens, I will wreck my own health, both bodily and mentally. The only remedy is to forgive the other person and be responsible, not for what he had said or done, but simply for being present. We need to be grateful for that situation that had occurred. It reveals that we have a problem that needs to be resolved, hence we can “clean” and rectify our own problem.

We need to be grateful to the person who had abused us, for they are merely our mirrors, projecting our own problems. Watch our own minds and emotions, they are our real threats!

IS IT ABSOLUTELY TRUE?

What we “see” may not be the truth.

An incredibly well  done video. It’s hard to believe it’s not real.
He died in  1977. She was born in 1966.

This (digital) meeting  between Elvis Presley & Martina McBride, is  40 years apart.

Merry Christmas!

Thank You, I Love You!

Eddie Lim